January 21, 2012
“ when girls tell other girls to “have some self respect” in response to their sexual behaviour, do they realize that they’re not respecting themselves by implying that the more sex you have, the less valuable you are? that therefore your worth is in regards to your body and your body alone? i mean, if a woman is having lots of sex because she gets pleasure of out if it but people ignore the fact that it is pleasurable (because allowing yourself to have pleasure, would be considered respectful towards yourself), than what is the purpose of sex? to satisfy someone else? so your body is only good for someone else’s pleasure? your body is not your own? to truly respect yourself, you’d stop forcing other girls to behave a specific way because ultimately, it just comes full circle back to you; you’re placing unfair roles and expectations on yourself. if you respected yourself, why would you want to limit your own freedom?
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